Sunday, January 31, 2016

Choosing the right during times of affliction


 “1 O God, where art thou? And where is the pavilion that covereth thy hiding place?
 How long shall thy hand be stayed, and thine eye, yea thy pure eye, behold from the eternal heavens the wrongs of thy people and of thy servants, and thine ear be penetrated with their cries?
 3 Yea, O Lord, how long shall they suffer these wrongs and unlawful oppressions, before thine heart shall be softened toward them, and thy bowels be moved with compassion toward them?
 O Lord God Almighty, maker of heaven, earth, and seas, and of all things that in them are, and who controllest and subjectest the devil….let thy pavilion be taken up; let thy hiding place no longer be covered; let thine ear be inclined; let thine heart be softened, and thy bowels moved with compassion toward us.
Remember thy suffering saints, O our God; and thy servants will rejoice in thy name forever.”

This comes from the beginning of Section 121 of Doctrine & Covenants; the writer of this petition to God is none other than the first prophet of this dispensation, Joseph Smith.

What I wish to speak to you about today is choosing the right while in the mist of afflictions. First and foremost let’s get this out into the air: Life isn’t fair; all of you know this and all of you have very much felt the sting of afflictions and trials at some time in your life, some of your lives as a whole may very well feel like one big piece of hard life pie. I know my life has had its fair share of trials and I dare say that I’ve had more times of affliction then the average Joe so I know all too well how the weight of hard times can bring you down, lose sight of yourself and the things you hold true to.
It seems like when we do lose sight it’s because our minds come to us with the following questions and we can’t seem to find answers to them that satisfy our mortal minds need for balance and in the end we end up making choices and act on impulses that get us into trouble. A few of these questions we’ve all heard and or have asked are:
Why does this have to happen to me?
Why do bad things happen to good people?
If God was real or loved me why would He let this happen?
I am a good person and I do everything asked of me, why do I still have to suffer?
And there are a million other questions we’ve all asked in our time here on earth.

I am not sure I can fully answer these questions that creep into our minds during times of trail but I do want to show you that even in your life, even in the worst situations, you can know with all your heart that you are in good company and show you that using examples from very Prophets themselves and the things they have suffered, things that no man or woman should have to. Not only that but to show you that you can come out on top, that you can be strengthened and refined by this, not broken down and destroyed.

My First example being the Prophet Joseph Smith; at the time he wrote the Sections 120-121 of D&C he was in Liberty Jail being imprisoned for variety of false allegations against him. This jail was in the basement of a house that was so small that an average sized man could not stand all the way up and would have to hunch over in order to walk around. They froze because there was no insulation and anytime they tried to start a fire they were engulfed in the smoke and could not breathe, this also being the coldest winter on record at the time. They starved more often than not and when feed, where typically given spoiled food and therefore poisoned and spent most of the time sick and delirious; out of desperation they would have to continue this cycle or starve. There was even one instance when the jailers tried to feed them the carcass of a deceased man.  Joseph Smith and the others spent months in this jail before being able to leave.

Joseph Smith went through a hell on earth and this wasn’t the first time and even though a Prophet, he wasn’t spared any of this, he suffered and was afflicted for months. This time, away from his family, cold, sick, starving, and taunted must have felt like an eternity. And the cause of all of this where false allegations against him, men lied in order to imprison and torture a good man who they didn’t understand and who they were afraid of and hated because of the church that he was the figure head for.  But out of this suffering came these Sections of D&C for us all and they are a blessing to us in these days if only we will study them and use them to help us. These sections include these very words from the Savior to the Prophet and in affect to us:

 7 My son, peace be unto thy soul; thine adversity and thine afflictions shall be but a small moment;
 8 And then, if thou endure it well, God shall exalt thee on high; thou shalt triumph over all thy foes.
 9 Thy friends do stand by thee, and they shall hail thee again with warm hearts and friendly hands.

These words to the Prophet, these words to us not only are supposed to comfort but to teach us a simple truth.

Our afflictions, regardless of how long they seem are just that, “a small moment” and if we “endure it well” we will be exalted by our Father, no matter what we are going through, if you stay faithful and hold true to what you know and choose the right; it may not be immediate or even while you’re here in mortality, but it will happen if you stay strong which each and every one of you can do because you are so much stronger then you realize; you’re children of a heavenly lineage and that power is in you if you will just but tap into it,

My second example comes from Daniel the Prophet of the Old Testament. Daniel was a good and Godly man that found favor with King Darius But the presidents and princes were envious of Daniel for this and I will from Daniel Chapter 6 tell you what they did:

“ 4 …the presidents and princes sought to find occasion against Daniel concerning the kingdom; but they could find none occasion nor fault; forasmuch as he was faithful, neither was there any error or fault found in him.
 5 Then said these men, We shall not find any occasion against this Daniel, except we find it against him concerning the law of his God.
 6 Then these presidents and princes assembled together to the king, and said thus unto him….
 7 All the presidents of the kingdom, the governors, and the princes, the counsellors, and the captains, have consulted together to establish a royal statute, and to make a firm decree, that whosoever shall ask a petition of any God or man for thirty days, save of thee, O king, he shall be cast into the den of lions.
 8 Now, O king, establish the decree, and sign the writing, that it be not changed, according to the law of the Medes and Persians, which altereth not.
 9 Wherefore king Darius signed the writing and the decree”

From there they had all they needed to get rid of Daniel knowing that he would not worshipping God under any circumstance, used this to their advantage and they eventually caught Daniel praying, and even though the King loved Daniel his hands were tied and Daniel was thrown into the lion’s den while the king spent the night fasting and not being able to sleep and from here I will continue in Daniel 6:

 “19 Then the king arose very early in the morning, and went in haste unto the den of lions.
 20 And when he came to the den, he cried with a lamentable voice unto Daniel: and the king spake and said to Daniel, O Daniel, servant of the living God, is thy God, whom thou servest continually, able to deliver thee from the lions?
 21 Then said Daniel unto the king, O king, live for ever.
 22 My God hath sent his angel, and hath shut the lions’ mouths, that they have not hurt me: forasmuch as before him innocency was found in me; and also before thee, O king, have I done no hurt.
 23 Then was the king exceeding glad for him, and commanded that they should take Daniel up out of the den. So Daniel was taken up out of the den, and no manner of hurt was found upon him, because he believed in his God.”

Because of the wickedness of the natural man that resided in those men, Daniel was made to suffer, but because he never wavered and continued to worship God and do right, he was not only saved from the lions, but he was able to convert the king and the kingdom along with it. This teaches us all a couple of very important principles one is that when afflicted, if we continuing keeping the commandments and having faith in our Father, we can be saved from even the worst situation and secondly, you never know who is watching you and your strength during hard times can bring about a conversion to others that otherwise wouldn’t be touched in any other way. I would like to back up this point with Alma Chapter 17 Verse 11:

 11 And the Lord said unto them also: Go forth among the Lamanites, thy brethren, and establish my word; yet ye shall be patient in long-suffering and afflictions, that ye may show forth good examples unto them in me, and I will make an instrument of thee in my hands unto the salvation of many souls.”

The Last example I want to talk about is a situation that Alma and Amulek where in during their ministry that found in Chapter 14:

“ 8 …they brought their wives and children together, and whosoever believed or had been taught to believe in the word of God they caused that they should be cast into the fire; and they also brought forth their records which contained the holy scriptures, and cast them into the fire also, that they might be burned and destroyed by fire.
 9 And it came to pass that they took Alma and Amulek, and carried them forth to the place of martyrdom, that they might witness the destruction of those who were consumed by fire.
 10 And when Amulek saw the pains of the women and children who were consuming in the fire, he also was pained; and he said unto Alma: How can we witness this awful scene? Therefore let us stretch forth our hands, and exercise the power of God which is in us, and save them from the flames.
 11 But Alma said unto him: The Spirit constraineth me that I must not stretch forth mine hand; for behold the Lord receiveth them up unto himself, in glory; and he doth suffer that they may do this thing, or that the people may do this thing unto them, according to the hardness of their hearts, that the judgments which he shall exercise upon them in his wrath may be just; and the blood of the innocent shall stand as a witness against them, yea, and cry mightily against them at the last day.”

I remember when I first read this; it was and still is one of the most powerful things I’ve ever read. This is the only time ever in my study of the scriptures that I ever came across something like this. These verses addressed a question asked by us all: Why doesn’t God do anything to help people all over the world that are starving, dying or worse. A question I’ve asked myself plenty of times in my life. Here we have two men with the Priesthood and the Spirit so strong they’ve been able to bring about many miracles and even though they wanted to do something and normally would have had the power to have done something, they very well couldn’t. These innocent and good people suffered a cruel death. It’s the same fate billions of people have suffered since Abel; it’s the same fate people are suffering this very moment. Does that mean God doesn’t care? Does that mean that we are just a game to him or any number of slanders you hear out of the mouths of those jaded in life? I declare no, He very much cares, more so and deeper than any of us can fathom. Every time one of us suffers even the worst this world can inflict on us, we are never alone. We never suffer alone, not even for a second because our Savior suffered it all; every tear shed, every heart broken, all the blood spilt He suffered through the atonement for us; and while He Himself suffered, and while we suffer, our Father in heaven weeps for us all that suffer.

Why then does he allow this suffering, I would like to refer to a couple of scripture verses in order to shed some light on this:

1st Peter Chapter 1 Verses 7-9 says:
“ That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ:
 8 Whom having not seen, ye love; in whom, though now ye see him not, yet believing, ye rejoice with joy unspeakable and full of glory:
 9 Receiving the end of your faith, even the salvation of your souls.”

The Savior Himself said these words that are captured in Matthew Chapter 5 verses 10-12:

 “10 Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness’ sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
 11 Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake.
 12 Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you.”

Our Heavenly Father loves you more then you know, he very much suffers when you do. So with this said we need to know and accept that He won’t always save us from suffering and affliction. The reasons may vary, it maybe for us to learn, for us to be refined so we can be exalted, it may end up being our time to leave mortality, to be an example to others of strength or faith, or even to help heap coals on the heads of the wicked and un-repented.

This doesn’t mean that we are alone, not even for a second so we need to remember to do one thing; the right thing and we need to make that a conscious choice every second, even when we are being tried, tested or when life is unfair and we suffer for it.

Why? Because it regardless of the reason of our suffering, it really is a time for us to be tested, to show ourselves and our Father our true potential. It’s also very important for us to stay strong and to choose the right because even though He will never walk away from us, we can very much walk away from him, which leaves us alone in this world; when we do we lose the gifts of both the Spirit and the blessings of the Atonement. These two gifts can make anything you go through even a little bit more bearable then if you had to suffer it alone, trust me; I’ve suffered with and without these gifts.

In addition to these gifts, the keys to help you choose the right even in the worst of suffering are honestly very simple, it’s the things we should be doing every day, praying, and studying the scriptures, the basics you learn in primary or in your missionary discussions. In addition you also have fasting and if possible you always have the Temple. The hard thing about doing the basics while in the mist of pain is that it seems like they are the hardest things to do, but remember you are blessed in them, they give your strength and discipline, prayer is your way to vent to loving Father who listens and scriptures and the Spirit are the ways He speaks back to you.

It doesn’t matter what you’ve been through, what are you are going through. Your body, even your mind end up scared from this life, but if we use these things and continue in righteousness, our souls will never be, and one day your body and mind will not only be healed from all the hell this world put you through, but they will be perfected, you will be perfected by it and because of it. But only if you’ve let it, only if you’ve tried your best and stayed holding on to the rod of iron and choose the right.

I hope that one day; we can all be like Nephi when he said:

“…I have seen so great things, if the Lord in his condescension unto the children of men hath visited men in so much mercy, why should my heart weep and my soul linger in the valley of sorrow, and my flesh waste away, and my strength slacken, because of mine afflictions?”




 *Originally a talk for Sacrament meeting.











Blessings of the Temple



I want to tell all of you a little about myself while at the same time talking about the truths and blessings I have so far learned about the Holy Temple.

For most of my life I had never been inside a Temple, honestly the first twelve years I never even knew that they existed. I grew up in a family that didn’t believe in God and I had never even heard of the LDS church until we moved to Utah after Hurricane Andrew destroyed our house in Florida. As I started growing up here I had been made fun of a lot and was excluded from other kids because I wasn’t LDS, by the time I was in J.R. High and High School I hated the Church and especially its membership and fell both into the wrong crowd and ended up going to a church that used to spoon feed me Anti-LDS rhetoric so when I thought of the Temple I thought I had all the answers of what it was and what went on with them.

Honestly from the time I was a teenager until I was in my mid-twenties I thought the Temple is where Mormons showed their true colors and did evil and satanic, masonic based rituals.  I thought the symbols of the Temples had evil intentions and that the only real thing I knew was that Mormons where sealed to each other not understanding the point because I figured when you were married it was implied that you would be together forever, whatever forever meant and whatever heaven really was. To make matter worse any Mormon friends I had and their parents either wouldn’t tell me anything about the Temple and any that did made couldn’t explain it properly leaving me even more confused.

Now even though my parents never went to church and didn’t believe in God, I always have. I don’t know how or why but I’ve always had a pull that I could not explain when it came to church and religion. Somehow growing up I always managed to find people that would get me going to a church and as I became a teenager that pull increased tenfold. I studied them all, including going to church after church, a synagogue and Buddhist Temple or two and claimed membership in a non-denominational Christian church for some time in High School. Back then I even went to a Mormon church a couple of times even with my prejudice. I remember actually the first time I ever went to a sacrament meeting I applauded after someone spoke; it was dead silent and everybody stared at me, I was very embarrassed. What I didn’t know at the time is that I was having all these seeds planted in my heart. Between good people like Mr. Taft which was an old neighbor and awesome example. Seminary which I took for only half a quarter in J.R. High because I transferred out the second I found out that it was LDS. But it and time spent with Mr. Taft always made me feel good and I could feel the Light of Christ until I let my hate push it back out of me. One thing I always gave the Mormons is that the Temples they had looked really pretty and looked cool towering out of the night all lit up. I remember one time in my senior year of High School I was in Salt lake City for a conference for FCCLA which was a club that I was an officer in. All my fellow officers and my teachers where LDS and wanted to walk Temple Square which I agreed to because up until that time I had never seen it in person. Once I did I was awe struck, I almost cried and felt a peace and a love that I had never experienced. Did this help me see the light? Nope, I brushed it off because I could not let go of my hate and I thought I knew it all about the Church and how corrupt it was. I was also having a very hard time in my life because of depression and because of it I became hopeless and spent most of my young adult life living the type of life that was completely contrary to the Gospel.
                                                                                                                                   
At age twenty-five I accidentally almost killed myself and this was one of the best things that has happened in my life, because of it I had a sacred experience that turned my heart and mind back into focus of finding the church and the religion that was meant for me. So I started searching again, now mind you that being agnostic meant that I was able to form my own ideas and beliefs on everything and I wanted to find something that would fit what I already believed in. On top of this something told me to give everything a chance and to let go of the prejudices that I had formed in my life. So I did and I started looking back into everything honestly for once in my life with an open mind and heart. I did this for about a year and nothing felt right until I was talking to an LDS friend who was able to explained to me what my experience meant and then we discussed what I believed and they were able to show me that almost everything I believed where the basics of the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ.  I was shocked because I knew right then that I would become a member of the Church, whether I liked it or not.

Now the whole reason why I practically gave you my life story is because I want you to know how important and how power the next story I am going to tell you is to me and how much everything about the Temple means to me.

The real turning point for me during the missionary discussions was a lesson on the Temple. I felt the Spirit as strong as I ever had and at one point they showed me a video called “Why Mormons Build Temples” and right then, I was right back to that night in Salt lake City feeling that peace and love that I felt then. I learned and was testified to a couple of things that mean more than anything and do so more every day, more on that later. I also want to say that I cried during that lesson and I cried of happiness and longing. From that day on I was determined to go to the Temple.

One of the best things to every happen to me was getting my Endowments out; from then on I’ve been hooked. The Temple has been one of the biggest blessings in my life, and has taught me more than I thought it ever would.

One of the first things I have ever learned about the Temple is that:

It is for everyone, and when I say everyone I mean those who are and those who aren’t members, those who are but have things that they need to resolve in their lives, those who don’t have issues but can’t seem to find the time or the gas money these days.

For those who aren’t members, let’s pray and fast and be friends so that one day they will see what the Gospel is in this life and if we are really blessed, we will have been a part of that process.

For those who need to resolves things in their lives. Please be brave, pray, fast, see the Bishop and sacrifice whatever you need to, to get that recommend in your hand or back in your hand. I know all too well how hard it can be to face yourself and to ask for help once you’ve gotten to a point where you need it, be brave it is worth it, Nothing worth it is ever easy and you have the support of members, angels and the very power of Heaven itself behind you.

For those who don’t think they have the time or gas or whatever other reason we think up to not go when able to. Since Ogden Temple closed this has also been me too. We are the luckiest saints around because we have so many Temples to choose from, I know times are tough and things can be rough but those who came before us sacrificed everything they had and lost two temples before they moved out west. There are others who save up their whole life and sell everything they can just to take long and sometimes dangerous trips just to go once in their whole life. What excuse do we really have in the end?

And to those who have been once and was intimidated or scared by what they saw; it is honestly over whelming at first and it’s a lot to take in. Take your time but hurry back. If you need to spend a little time to re prepare then do so, ask for help and go back and just do baptisms for the dead or other work and work yourself up. You can do it, you’re meant to be there. Don’t let your fear push out your faith.
Boyd K. Packer I think puts it best when he said:

“To all of you I say, “Come to the temple.” It may be that you look forward to the once-in-a-lifetime privilege of going there to receive your own endowment, to receive your own blessings, and to enter into your own covenants with the Lord. It may be that you have been there once or twice already. It may be that you go frequently. It may even be that you are an officiator. Whatever the circumstances may be, come to the temple.
If needed, set your lives in order; pray fervently. Start now that very difficult and sometimes very discouraging journey of repentance. Firmly resolve that you will do everything you can to aid temple work and the family history work that supports it and to assist every living soul and every soul beyond the veil in every way you can with every resource at your disposal.
Come to the temple!”

Now for some of the blessings I have had from the Temple:

Your Testimony as well as your Faith will grow by leaps and bounds, they will become stronger and will be rejuvenated every time you go, you will have Endurance against persecution and trails and you will be able to stand firm in your knowledge of the Truth when the Truth is being challenged by those who would oppose it or distort and destroy it.

President Monson also made this promise to those who will face toward the house of the Lord:
“The world can be a challenging and difficult place in which to live. We are often surrounded by that which would drag us down. As you and I go to the holy houses of God, as we remember the covenants we make within, we will be more able to bear every trial and to overcome each temptation. In this sacred sanctuary we will find peace; we will be renewed and fortified.”

Another time he had this to say:
 “As we touch the temple and love the temple, our lives will reflect our faith. As we go to the holy house, as we remember the covenants we make therein, we will be able to bear every trial and overcome each temptation.”

So to states these blessings again they are Testimony, Faith, Strength, Rejuvenation, Endurance, and Truth.

And these blessings don’t always come from just going and doing the work needed in the Temple. But they also come from becoming and staying worthy of the Temple. And that comes from overcoming temptation and repenting when you do make a mistake.

The blessings also come from when you’ve prepared yourself for the Temple through prayer, fasting, and study whether it is for the first or thousandth time. Every time you make sacrifice for the Temple or you have to make a sacrifice to attend. And especially when you’ve helped someone receive their blessings whether they are still alive or if you’re doing it for them after they’ve passed on.

I know these things bring blessings, I testify that I have both seen and lived it.

Peace is another blessing that comes from the Temple. The peace that you feel from the second you walk on those grounds till you leave again is something that nothing on this earth can compare to, I know this because I’ve spent my whole life trying to find that peace by any means necessary and nothing comes close to what I feel when I go. In the worst times, the biggest trails, the worst heart ache I have felt at times goes away and I can feel peace. And I know that you can to if you let it.
Jeffery R Holland spoke at a fireside once about when the Prophet Joseph Smith was in Liberty jail and how that jail became a Prison-Temple for the Prophet and this is what Elder Holland had this to say:

“You can have sacred, revelatory, profoundly instructive experiences with the Lord in any situation you are in. Indeed, you can have sacred, revelatory, profoundly instructive experiences with the Lord in the most miserable experiences of your life—in the worst settings, while enduring the most painful injustices, when facing the most insurmountable odds and opposition you have ever faced.”

If the Prophet Joseph Smith could have an experience that begat sections 121-123 of D&C, in this prison-temple that lacked the purity, beauty, comfort, and cleanliness of our temples. The speech and behavior of the guards and criminals who came there were anything but temple-like. Then how could we not be able to gain those same things in the very house of the Lord.

Other blessings we have that I will repeat what Elder Holland are: sacred, revelatory, profoundly instructive experiences with the Lord. I won’t touch on this one much because what I have experienced in the Temple is just that, sacred and I dare not and will not repeat any of those. An example that I can share is when the Savior Himself appeared to those in the Kirkland Temple and said:
 “Let the hearts of your brethren rejoice, and let the hearts of all my people rejoice, who have, with their might, built this house to my name. For behold, I have accepted this house, and my name shall be here; and I will manifest myself to my people in mercy in this house.”
And then Moses, Elias, and Elijah each appear and commit their keys and dispensations.

So now on to the two things I learned in that missionary lesson that I cherish so much.

1.     This IS the house of the Lord, this is where the veil between us and Him are at their most thin and where we can be closest to our Heavenly Father; that truth, that blessing is almost too much for my mind, I can’t of any other way to describe it besides, awe inspiring.  When I was a kid and as I started really learning about God and about Jesus Christ all I ever wanted to do was to be close to them. Being in the Temple, being that close to them is a dream come true while I am on the earth.

President Monson testified of this when he said:

“How far is heaven? I testify that in the holy temples it is not far at all—for it is in these sacred places that heaven and earth meet and our Heavenly Father gives His children His greatest blessings.”

2.     Family can be forever.  Through the blessings of proxy work and the Sealing ordnance I can help my parents get a second chance after they die, for all my life I’ve been afraid of losing my parents after they die because of the lives they lead because according to what I learned most of my life growing up is that my parents where bad people and that they would go to hell and that I would never see them again. I love the Temple because I will day have the chance to help them finally make a change if they are willing to accept it in the afterlife.

There is one last thing that I have recently learned. That the home is also a Temple; It is a Holy sanctuary where we perform the most important callings we will ever have; being a spouse and a parent. Until I was married I had never lived in a peaceful home where the Spirit of the Lord was invited. The home I grew up in was always full of contention and substance abuse and it forced me to face things and grow up in ways that no child should ever have to. I know now that I can have a Temple in the home for in my home I always want the Spirit to fill it and that my Heavenly Father knows that it’s His home too. 

One last quote from President Monson:
“The Lord has indicated that the greatest work we parents can do is performed in our homes, and our homes can be heaven, particularly when our marriages are sealed in the house of God.”


 *Originally a talk given in sacrament



 

Monday, January 25, 2016

Hey Buddy


Hey Buddy,

Being an ex-anti-Mormon I appreciate that you would come to me what you have found on the internet about humans becoming like God considering how shook up you are from it. Just remember what Abraham Lincoln said, “You can’t believe everything you see on the internet”. You know that was funny, and it is true.

Can I ask you a couple of favors, I want you to do and then ruminate on a couple of things:

1.      Remember that there is a reason why I joined the church after being far against it in the past and believing in everything negative thing I have ever heard about it (or every truth taken out of context).
2.      Go ask your dad if he would want you to be just like him someday. I bet you already know the answer, “I want you to do better then what I’ve done”. Doesn’t matter if you have heard it before, just go ask him. Ask him why and look right into his eyes. I bet you will see something special in his eyes when you ask.

3.      Ask your dad what it was like when you was little and you would mimic what he did or did things to be like him.

Now have you ever thought about why we call God “Heavenly Father”? Why every name for Him in the Old Testament is a variation of that title. I mean really think about it and not just the “Sunday School” answer.

He is your dad man, He gave you life and has been with you since the very beginning of your existence. He has been with you, proud of you in good times. He has been in tears with you in the bad. He only wants the very best for you and wants you to reach your full potential. He wants you to grow, learn, love, evolve, and like any father, he wants you to grow up to be like Him.
Being a father myself I feel like I might be lucky enough to have a tiny idea of what it’s like to be God in regard to His relationship with us, His children. I adore my girls and while they will always be my little girls, I become absolutely ecstatic every time they grow and learn something new. I hope, pray, and wish nothing but for them to take every good thing about me and become better people then I’ve been considering that I am far from perfect.

Remember when I asked you to look into your fathers eyes? Well what is inside of him is what is inside your Heavenly Father and it’s the same look He will give you one day. Being in families here on earth is to help teach and re-enforce what the order of Heaven really is, family. And as children in families grow into adults as their parents, we too naturally are able to grow into Godhood with Him, not to topple or attempt to be better than Him, but becoming like Him is the ultimate compliment to give, the pinnacle of your relationship with Him and the family you have been sealed with. Your father here on earth would never want anything less than the best for you, why would your very creator short change you and want anything less than perfection for you?
Don’t believe me? Ask you father, and your other Father.
Lastly I want to leave you with a simple quote from the talk “What is truth”:

…remember that in this age of information there are many who create doubt about anything and everything, at any time and every place.

You will find even those who still claim that they have evidence that the earth is flat, that the moon is a hologram, and that certain movie stars are really aliens from another planet. And it is always good to keep in mind, just because something is printed on paper, appears on the Internet, is frequently repeated, or has a powerful group of followers doesn’t make it true.

Sometimes untrue claims or information are presented in such a way that they appear quite credible. However, when you are confronted with information that is in conflict with the revealed word of God, remember that the blind men in the parable of the elephant would never be able to accurately describe the full truth.

Love you man,

Brad